@trishdub

I have had a pessary for about 5 years. Mine is easy to remove as it has a short handle that enables me to pull it out. I remove mine twice a week overnight and use a pea size drop of estradiol when I do. I wash it thoroughly with soap and water and keep it in a plastic container and then the next morning I use KY jelly to re insert. So, the shape of the pessary can determine how easy it is to remove. Someone with arthritis in their hands may have difficulty.

I would personally not want to leave it in for months and have to visit a provider for removal. I initially tried a few types and sizes in the office (all circular discs and some without handles) and my provider made sure I was able to work with it in addition to making sure it was comfortable. I remember her telling me to use the bathroom to make sure it doesn’t fall out. Ask your provider if you could try this type…it really makes a difference when you can grab onto it for removal. Since it is rubbery, I just bend the handle a bit for reinsertion. If it makes a difference, I am now 84 and have good manual dexterity.

FL Mary