I bought those same underwear as it's much easier and cheaper to wash them. But I worry too when they get full, the material gets wet and there is nothing between them and what I am wearing for pants or shorts. I have the cup liners and a variety of Depends and similar ones which I am wearing at night or if I have to be away from home for more than an hour or two. It is beyond embarrassing knowing I am wearing these things, but for the most part, they have done what they are supposed to do and I am the only one that knows I have them on. I am looking forward to being one of those men who will look back at this time and remember when I had to wear them because I no longer need to.

I have also found an incredible prostate recovery group for men. It's a national zoom meeting that gets together a few times a week to talk openly about what we are all going through. I am glad to share the information if you are interested. They are a non-profit group and have helped me with a safe space to share.