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Husband developing memory issues

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I worked for IBM for 31 years, so I'd like to think I was good at organizing and taking the ball and running with it. Unfortunately, MCI wasn't on my list to deal with, I don't even know if I knew what that was. Do you have Medicare as primary? We had Medicare first, then IBM went to a different retiree plan, and we ended up on Medicare Advantage. That wasn't good for us, as everything we did was denied, and the doctors in Florida, many of them wouldn't take Medicare Advantage, United Health Care - even Mayo in Jacksonville which previously did but stopped two years back. So we switched back to Medicare.
As I mentioned my husband is on lequembe his fifth infusion, today he goes for an MRI. Yes, try to do your lists, and look at them every morning and cross off what you did. On the infusions, when they go on them, at least lequembe, there is an MRI done before every 3, 5, 7 and 14th infusion, so if you can get through insurance paying for the petscan, make sure they cover the MRI's. My understanding is that it used to be every 4th infusion, but that changed in August, 2025. I don't know if the doctor's practice we're in changed it, or if it's a lequembe requirement.
Hope this helps.

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Replies to "@elm123 I worked for IBM for 31 years, so I'd like to think I was good..."

@kjc48 I know the insurance issue was secondary to your main point, but I wanted to point out that you might find a medigap supplemental plan is better suited to your needs than an advantage plan or original Medicare alone. There are many choices, a little cheat - plans f and g are the best ones, also the most expensive

@kjc48 I was a system engineer for AT&T for 25 years, so I guess we have a lot in common. I'm still fighting with the neurologist's office to get the needed information to Blue Medicare Advantage. Out insurance is thru my husband's carpenter's union, so I hesitate to switch. This is the first time we've been denied for any medical care (I had cancer 6 years ago) and I think it's more the neurologist's office not following up when they needed to. I'm trying my best to keep up with everything. I hope my husband can get the PET scan because we have an appointment with a neurologist associated with a memory center at Rutgers in New Jersey and I want to see what he has to say about the infusions,etc.

It's nice to have someone to talk to about this. Have a great day!