Hi,
I'm so sorry that you are going through all of this. That must be very hard on you. It's good that you are under a doctor's care. I hope he gets it figured out for you without surgery! 20 of them are enough! I have no suggestions but I can offer a prayer for you. God made you and he can fix you! We'll just pray and have faith. You will be fine!
Keep us posted on how things go for you.
I wish you the best.
PML