@judimahoney
You are trying your best. Don’t be so hard on yourself. I have to dress my husband but one night he went to the bathroom then took his diaper off put his pj back on, I was not a happy, realizing he can do some of the things that I was doing. I felt like the mother who does it all for the child and not allowing him to do it himself. Sometimes I feel like a drill Sargent barking out orders and other times I have patience.