Hello and welcome @maraki- I think .we all tend to worry more around the holidays because things are so overwhelming,. I agree with Kanaaz, be in the now- You can't change yesterday or control tomorrow yet. Set your priorities- is everyone warm, fed and pain free? Good. That covers today. Then set your sites on tomorrow- what is the most important thing to attend to? Good, then come back to today. Finish decorating or wrapping or even shopping. Cook for tonight or tomorrow. Do things that you can control. Rest if you can and spend tons of time with your husband. I have stage 4 NSCLC. I have had four lung cancers and I am a survivor of 21 years.
It's fantastic that immunotherapy has been so effective. Does he have any troubling side affects?