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The Emotional Side of Hearing Loss

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@scotdansr I understand what it is like to be your husband. I lost hearing in my right ear to SSHL in 5/2020. My left ear isn't that great either. My wife is soft spoken and naturally sits to my bad ear side: concerts, ball games, walking together, on the couch, everywhere. Talking to each other is mutually frustrating. I asked her if we can both learn sign language and use it to talk. What we are doing is not working for either of us. So we tried. We learned to sign to each other, we had to be in the same room together, we had to be looking at each other, and we had to only pay attention to each other without distraction. We realized doing those things is very hard to do. We both had to make changes. But, if we did those things, we didn't need sign language. We could talk to each other quite easily. Kind of ironic how that worked out. Anyone else ever try anything like that?

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@tomrennie I can't help but ask if you are using any assistive listening devices? There are some cool hand held devices that can transmit desired sound, such as speech from another person, directly to the hard of hearing person's hearing technology. One of the most basic is the Pocket Talker. Others are more sophisticated and designed to work with specific brands of personal hearing technology. They are worth having. Some interesting devices are available through Diglo.com a catalog that has a variety of assistive technologies used to help people with various disabilities. We learn about these things from one another for the most part. Our providers should tell us more about them and should have them on hand to try at appointments. Few do that, sadly.