Hi @allstaff—two months out can be a tricky phase. As nerves wake up and tissues settle, many of us feel new zings, stings, and soreness around the incision, back, or shoulder. What helped me was staying consistent with breathing work and walking, but easing the intensity a bit. I kept moving—just gentler—and the discomfort gradually faded. If anything feels worrisome or starts limiting your breathing or daily activities, loop in your care team; they can reassure you or adjust the plan.
Sandy—thank you for sharing your experience. I also want to offer another perspective. I’m past the five-year mark since my stage 2b metastasized to my brain, and I’m still working full-time in a job I love, staying active in lung-cancer advocacy, judging BBQ contests, and living fully. Statistics are real, but they’re averages—not individual destinies. A hopeful, optimistic, and determined mindset won’t replace medical care, but it absolutely helps many of us navigate treatment and recovery.
To both of you: ask your teams what symptoms should prompt a call, what would trigger earlier imaging, and how your rehab/exercise plan should be paced. Advocate for yourselves, seek second opinions if you need clarity, and keep going. You’re not alone here—and there’s a lot of life to be lived while healing.
@flusshund Thank you for these encouraging words. It’s true; at 8 weeks post op, I have pain, exhaustion and, I admit, impatience. I need to replace impatience with grace. My best to you in your journey, too.