@jrs619 Hey again...how many weeks or months are you "post-op"? if less than 3 months, you might do best to adjust your expectations for what you want to accomplish and when. Wearing a diaper and pad, then just diaper drove me CRAZY. I am still not 100% continent after 5 months, but I am 95% "there." I just need to cross the finish line. Truthfully, but the end of the third month, it was just another day going through diapers and pads...I sort of resigned myself to it. Again, the biggest improvement was eliminating the "pad" inside my "diaper." That made a world of difference. Again...be patient (hard I know) and just know "this too shall pass." Good luck.