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What are you best tips for being more patient?
Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Oct 1, 2025 | Replies (68)Comment receiving replies
My husband has not been diagnosed...he refuses to have the 6 month "let's check in" appointment with neurologist (his primary care doc referred him after I wrote letter describing my concerns) because he says he is okay, realizes he forgets but nothing major that matters and "it is what it is" and he's read enough to know nothing can change it.
I am sure he has MCI and see the decline. I know big changes ahead. Am working on patience and calm demeanor.
Appreciate being able to read these posts. Thank you.
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@suefishrob ohh, the old ‘it is what it is’. My husband uses ‘that’s just who I am’ when he practices unacceptable behavior. Ohhh, the trials we face…
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@suefishrob good for you for writing to his doctor. Would you consider asking his doctor to discuss with your husband treatments that might be helpful? It's so hard isn't it? I'm glad the posts helped you - the helpful comments have resulted in a 100% improvement in my ability to be patient. Wishing you a day that needs less patience and feels calmer. You can do it!