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@tuckerp Funny how you mention the GBM site, with only positive comments allowed.
My friend’s son had GBM and was being treated in Houston (not MD Anderson, but the ‘other’ cancer hospital whose name escapes me) by an Asian doctor with a very heavy accent. He was a very clinical type, never joked and rarely smiled.
When my friend’s son asked him what the next steps would be after radiation, he looked at him and said ‘You be dead in 14 months no matter what you do’…
The kid was stunned but immediately went to the chief of radiology and fired the doctor over the comment. He was quickly reassigned another clinician.
Don’t know what happened to the first doc, but c’mon man, give your patients HOPE at the very least!! Perhaps some comments on the forum come off that way to some individuals - a hard truth they simply cannot accept?? My friend’s son certainly couldn’t accept it and he fought like hell; he lasted 18 months - 4 months more than predicted.
Don’t know if this was a pyrrhic victory for him because those 4 extra months were the absolute worst…
Phil

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@heavyphil yes ironic. Thanks for the story. We found out thru an MRI at Banner hospital in Mesa Arizona. Jan 4th 2021. Right during COVID. We were assigned the only neuro surgeon. An Asian lady ex military. Very straight forward but quite good. Surgery was as soon as we could get a bed. No visitors. We were then assigned an oncologist. He told us after surgery results were back that we had 8-12months . Dont do anything else just go live life. We immediately switched to Barrows IVY center. New brain tumor center in Phoenix. We had the best. She lived about 1 years with some quality. Two more years of pure torture. Died Nov 10, 2024. Barrows always pushed to try the next thing. Never saying we dont have a chance. But we never had a chance. They took that tumor out and had the DNA results everyone knew but me.