Babby, you are in a good position to switch to the bone building medications. How long ago was your Reclast. It may be good for two years. You might check with bone markers CTX at least at the one year mark. Then you could holiday for a year or less. Then you want to take something; you could start Forteo.
My thought is that it isn't starting the medications that condemns us to a lifetime, it's the osteoporosis itself.
Rarely does anyone have osteoporosis because they haven't taken enough vitamins or have failed to exercise. It really is the loss of estrogen which hits us hardest between 52 and 62 years, but continues to lessen to the end of our days. Prolia and Evenity are the two drugs that can leave your bones worse off than if you'd never taken them. Reclast will stay fracture preventive for many years. With Forteo and Tymlos you have lingering protection because they make your bones stronger, but you'll continue to lose density after stopping them.
I think ( hope) the Reclast headaches will go away in time, when it becomes reduced in your system.
The side effects, if you have any, usually go away right away if you stop the medication.