@shmerdloff

I found your advice to be an extremely powerful reminder: Love is all there is. Being a loving caregiving, however, is daunting.

Face it: For many of us, life no longer seems like living, and it is difficult to be joyful, have fun or be funny when we know the inevitable. I miss our former selves and our prior life but my role now is to make my husband as comfortable as possible. That, however, hasn't deterred me from being Cruella de Vil.

Last night, I decided to picture myself as an usher at a wedding ceremony--ushering her Prince down the aisle to eternal rest and union with God.

I also found this reading helpful: