I have spent many hours on this site. I have learned so much from the inputs on here. I have found the moderators to be excellent fellow sufferers that contribute their time. This is social media. I would not expect to ask a question that I expected to get the same answer from everyone but I have never felt like it was a personal attack. I take all the answers and move on. My cancer was a gleason 6 3+3 with a PSA of 1.0. biopsy was 1 out of 12 with cancer. No other testing. I had LARP. I am now both incontinent and ED issues. I have had almost everyone on here tell me I was crazy for having it removed. I was told my urologist should be examined. He was not from a center of excellence. I appreciate the comments and determined an alternate course. There is so much knowledge on here that I have sent a couple guys to the site. I think most are expecting a straight answer from someone that finds themselves on the same boat. I can appreciate that the moderators prefer you say of course check with your Dr. But I prefer to get an alternate opinion that I take to my Dr.