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I had RP 15 months ago at age 70. Even though I was pretty much immediately continent after the catheter came out, I definitely had some anxiety which I believe was due to me not being fully confident in my ability to sleep through the night without having an accident (even though I only once had a very minor accident one night early on). As @surftohealth88 so well described it above, for me the anxiety slowly resolved over time as I grew more and more confident with my "new normal". But I definitely remember thinking that my mind was intentionally waking me up to urinate so I didn't have an accident, even if the physical urge wasn't yet very strong. Now at 15 months, that's all in the past and while I generally will wake up needing to go once a night (on average), it's only because I do actually physically have the need. The anxiety is gone. I don't know if it really helped, but I kept a disposable absorbent pad under the bottom sheet on the bed a few months longer than I physically needed as it seemed to help me get past the anxiety. After all, if Linus can have his security blanket I decided I could have my security pad 🙂 Best wishes.

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@retireditguy Thanks for your reply. From the moment my catheter came out, I was able to sleep through the night - for whatever length - with any accidents happening. I think it was a "gravity thing" - laying down in bed does not place any pressure on the bladder, so I never leaked, not once. I now sleep without a diaper because I know I will be fine. My anxiety builds with the subconscious need to urinate in the early morning hours between 4:00 - 5:00. The anxiety awakens me and I lay there comfy and lazy, not wanting to get out of bed, but...I do. I urinate, and go back to bed, and my anxiety is gone after urinating.