Hi Lisa's mom,
I know how difficult the group home rules can be and how the state dictates all the guidelines. Have you spoken to the staff and asked for suggestions? Sometimes, the providers know of somebody in similar situations that might help. If you can't get help from the providers, maybe talk to the state? I'm not sure about California guidelines. Also, if you have a neurologist or epitleptologist, I would get their input as well. I wish I could be of more help.
Good luck and keep us posted!
Kerry, Keegan's mom.