Hi @murphymarg59
As I mentioned earlier in this discussion, Lamictal was my first AED and had the fewest side effects for me. I only stopped taking it because of terrible insomnia. But as my doctor always reminds me, everyone responds differently - what doesn't work for one person might be perfect for another.
I completely agree with @jakedduck1's point of view. Reading the medication leaflet can potentially influence us. Based on my husband's suggestion, I've stopped reading the leaflets myself. Instead, if I experience any side effects, I ask him to check the information for me. You might consider asking someone you trust to do the same. That way you can avoid being influenced by all the potential side effects listed, while still having access to the information if needed.
Chris