When is it time for TKR?

Posted by movinmart @movinmart, Sep 6 12:09pm

Hi, I have osteoarthritis in both knees, with one limited to the patilla. The other is bone on bone but is still going. In March my “good” knee quit! I was crippled by the pain and was unable to walk or do much with it for three months. The pain was extreme. Having arthritis, all the surgeons or PT folks would recommend was TKR so I focused on rehab until surgery which is scheduled for the end of the month. However, I have now regained full function with only minor pain and stiffness after leg presses and riding my bike for 40 miles. Stairs, normal activities are all doable with minimal pain. I asked the doctor and was told that this would be expected, there will be good days and bad but I am having a very difficult time saying goodbye to an almost normally functioning knee. Anyone else experience this? Thanks. I’m kinda freaking out as time gets near.

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I'm having a very similar experience with my right knee. I have had a very successful experience with my left knee. Before I had the surgery I was reluctant then one day I simply knew that it was time.

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Thanks for your thoughts. Having a good outcome must have been reassuring and you knew what you were getting into when you decided it was time. I wish I had that data set to use in my decision:-).

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I’d say when your quality of life is more pain then not ? It’s time

Don’t jump into it if you’re still so active … my opinion only 🥰

Even though I have no regrets with my double TKR it will never be the same

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Thanks for thoughts from someone who knows! I wish the doctor could tell me I’ll be able to do everything I am doing and more. I’d. Love to think I’d be able to run and jump if I want to. If he could give me some assurance like that, I don’t think I would have an issue

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Can you get a second opinion from a different surgeon?

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I would like to but when they see arthritis in the xray, they tell you you’ll need it. My impression from past visits with two different surgeons was they really like you to be in significant pain with a diminished quality of life. I was there for 4 months and while I waited to get a new knee it has gotten much better.

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My ortho suggested 3 years before I had my tkr last November. I kept putting it off because it was my right knee (driving leg).
So, when I decided to get it done, he told my husband that my recovery would very difficult and challenging because of how bad my knee was. He had to scrape and reshape above and below my knee in order for the apparatus to sit properly.
This recovery has been down right brutal and aggravating for me. If I could go back, I would not have delayed my tkr.
Thankfully, this is getting a little more easier but yet some struggles throughout the days.
Lots of prayers 🙏 and ice, rest and patience.
Good luck in whatever you choose. Only you will know when you are ready ✨️

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Thanks for your thoughts.

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In about 2010, Ortho told me I'd need a TKR on my right knee within 5 years. I had been taking glucosamine and accidentally cut the dose in half when I switched brands, resulting in pain, tenderness, and an x-ray that showed nearly bone-on-bone. I fixed the dose and didn't have the TKR until 14 months ago, in June 2024. In 2022 my knee just gave out one day, and it took about 5 days to get it back with ice and rest. Then I noticed when I used that leg to take the big step to my front door, I'd more and more often sort of fall toward the door and grab the door handle. A few months later I needed help up steps and couldn't keep up on family outings. I was still pain free walking around, but quality of life was deteriorating. In 2024 I saw the surgeon and was referred to the class that explains it all. Half of the people there couldn't walk, really, and were clinging to someone else as they hobbled along. I was shocked that they had let it get that bad before having surgery. During class, one of the presenters said that recovery would actually be easier for those people who were already in the worst shape. At the time, I thought that made no sense. A month AFTER surgery I understood. If, like me, you were still walking around before surgery, slowly, but mostly pain-free, recovery was a big set-back. After the surgery I suddenly struggled to bend my leg and needed a walker. Rolling over in bed was difficult. I thought maybe I had made a mistake in having the surgery. Now 14-months post-surgery I can see that it was not a mistake, for me. Now I easily walk unassisted and pain-free. I'm getting stronger instead of weaker. Recovery isn't easy, and I hope I won't ever need to have my other knee done. If I start having trouble with my left knee, however, I would keep my timing the same, and not wait until I was clinging to someone else for support.

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After 4 months of not being able to walk and now 2 months of regaining muscle and mobility, I’m not thrilled about going through what you describe for rehab. I’m not sure there would be enough muscle left to rehab! On the other hand, I do t want to have my knee fail again and then have to wait 5 months to get another appointment for surgery!

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I had TKR on my right knee this past March (2025) after waiting about 4 years and doing cortisone shots. I decided on the surgery when the shots no longer were effective and the pain escalated. I’m approaching 6 months post op now and I can honestly say I am glad I had the surgery but it definitely brings it challenges. I still struggle with certain things, like stairs but I can do them. I agree with some other comments; you need to put in the work after surgery and it will take a while, and yes it hurts. A joint replacement will never be the same as your own/ original joint so you really need to weigh the pros and cons. Plus, don’t let anybody fool you, yes it hurts (lol) but it does get better. My knee was really messed up so my experience may be slightly different than others, but I’m ready to pick up the pace again. I’m sure you will make the right decision for you.

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By the time of my tkr I was in pretty much same position as you. With the complications I have had I sometimes wish never had the replacement. I could function with minimal pain and none after having injections into knee. The reason I went through with tkr is Dr's felt the knee was causing (or magnifying) my sciatica pain. Time will tell I am 2 months post and still having issues sleeping from pain at night. Daytime pain is minimal or nothing at all. Wish I would have gone with shots and maybe tkr later if really needed. But we are all different. Good luck to you whatever your decision, remember it's YOUR knee and you are calling the shots.

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I would like to but when they see arthritis in the xray, they tell you you’ll need it. My impression from past visits with two different surgeons was they really like you to be in significant pain with a diminished quality of life. I was there for 4 months and while I waited to get a new knee it has gotten much better.

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Sorry to hear that those 2 surgeons don't seem to want to give you a choice. I think I'd want to consult with at least one more.

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Good conversation. I am reminded of the adage (reality) that half of these doctors/surgeons graduated in the bottom half of their class. The point is to find a surgeon that specializes in TKR (or whatever surgery you are contemplating). Their relative passion matters. For example, my surgeon sought out revisions to TKRs. When I asked him why this was, he explained that seeing for himself what another surgeon may have done sub optimally helped him do a better job.

Maybe a coincidence, but I'm very glad I had my two TKRs and, after following the PT instructions - and then some - I'm not just pain-free but very happy with the results.

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