I often ask myself why do bad things happen to good people but I realize they happen to all of us. Yes, devastating, I'm sure to have a fire, even more so if you're dealing at the same time with a medical condition. I appreciate your response, and I'm going to keep it, and do as you suggest and try to keep things "normal" and "consistent" hard to do when nothing is normal and consistent right now. Our whole life is in boxes in storage, but we have each other, and we're here for each other in whatever hand is dealt for us. Thank you for your valuable post.