I'm a little late to the Xmas party but I think the small things in Life are BIG..I remember a Christmas after my husband died,(50 yrs old), me & my kids didn't have money for presents this year..So we enjoyed good food & decided to tell each other "What we would have bought them for Xmas, if we had money.."..We laughed so much it was so much fun & we never forgot that Christmas..It was The Best one of All...Being Blessed with just being together & remembering Christs Birth was a Big Blessing in itself...