I’m loose as a goose in St Louis. A tendency toward sarcasm but ugly is a bit of a stretch, but I certainly can agree with you on the nature of this site but I will definitely not tip toe with my comments as I am unaware that anyone going through what we all are going through would have such a fragility concerning an honest comment that actually concerned another individual who corrected me with a kindness and understanding of who we were actually talking about. Yet I suppose all forums could use a self appointed referee! Is that loose enough for you?