Hello Jennbelle....I'm sorry for the experiences you've had, and the frustrations you're experiencing. No one deserves to be ignored. Hopefully you've found a more compassionate Dr for your Mom, and have had better experiences now. It's possible your Mom is still processing her diagnosis mentally and emotionally, and may eventually become involved in her own treatment and care. Until then continue your efforts to help her and take time for your own health. There are answers for you and your Mom. Don't give up....❤️