My mother called me on 3 separate occasions and told me I was no longer her child. She was disowning me and I was not to ever contact her again. Then months later she would call me crying and say that she didn’t know why she did it and ask me to forgive her - months later she would do it again. Like an idiot, I did forgive her the first 2 times. When she called to disown me the third time, I told her to be very sure that this was what she wanted to do, because if we ended the call with her still wanting this - she would get her wish and never talk to me again. She held her ground, and with the advice of my therapist, I refused to answer her calls. Sometimes we need to put our mental health first, and prevent others from hurting us. My mother was a sick person, but I didn’t have to let her make me one too.