Thank you @coconutcrs1 ! Major surgery is a big deal and having the right expectations sets the stage for success. Personally, I was terrified, and through my maze of appointments with numerous specialists over a few years, I learned a lot about what can be good and what may not be. I was rejected by numerous surgeons who missed the correct diagnosis, and I was using that time researching spine issues and watching videos of surgeons at spine conferences presenting their cases. I do know it's best when the patient is onboard with the surgical team and believes in a positive outcome. Of course, that also depends on having a good surgeon. After 5 surgeons refused to help me, I found my way to Mayo Clinic for my 6th consult and excellent results from my cervical fusion. That's why I am here because it can be a difficult journey and hopefully, I can make that a bit easier with information. Through all of that, I also learned to overcome my fear and it changed who I am today. Thank you again.