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Whipple surgery for 81 year-old mom

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All of this information, advice, and insights are incredibly helpful. Thank you all so much. We met with the surgeon yesterday and he is recommending 4 months of chemo prior to surgery to both address the margins (her tumor is getting close to some major vessels) and kill off any cancer cells floating around in her body. She’s still hopeful, but without knowing how she’ll react to the chemo - especially at first when they’re guessing how much and the frequency - she’s overwhelmed by a desire to “just be normal again.” For now, the Whipple is still on the table and as long as the chemo does its job, looking like that it will be her decision to opt for the open surgery.

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It sounds like there is a game plan which is a great start. Do you know what chemo is being suggested? The "just be normal again" is a tough one. The mental and emotional side effects are sometimes worse than the physical side effects of chemo and surgery. What can she do today to help her feel more normal? What does she enjoy that is simple? Reading? Sitting with friends and family? Watching a movie? For me, keeping my mind occupied and staying busy kept my mind from going to places that weren't helpful. I believe keeping a positive attitude positively helps the body.