Hello, I have a lot of pain as my mother does. When I was younger during my working/career years I felt she just needed to get up and exercise. I had no idea how much pain she was actually in until now. She does not recognize any of us now and I wish I had been more understanding of what she was going through. Now it is too late. I have plenty of guilt even though we clashed most of my life and were not very close, at least as much as I wanted.
Oldest of six.