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@saraemma3709 We used a tactic many years ago with both my Grandma and my uncle when they were unhappy about us leaving - we would time our departure with the beginning of an activity in the common area/meal in the dining area and take them to it before saying goodbye. They were distracted by what was going on and seldom fussed. Sometimes it was as simple as pushing them near the aviary, fish tank or big screen TV where others were gathered.

My daughter was a memory care nurse, and a master of distraction. Some of her families would push their loved one near the nursing station and start a conversation between staff and the person, then step away

Maybe you could try one of these?

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Thank you I usually leave when dinner time starts and take him to his table and try to get him interested in the mail. He’s still stops and says you’re not leaving not being able to care for him at home anymore. It is sad for me when he isn’t happy, life’s journey isn’t easy.