Thanks Survivor for encouraging words, : )),
but I spent all of my time here trying to help members with non cancer related questions and offering emotional support. Learning about Gleason 9 treatments was not even on the periphery of my "radar". I finally got decent grasp about 4+3 unfavorable and than this curve-ball hit us out of the blue. So no, I do not know where to start or what to do, but will manage somehow with help of more experienced members here who will guide me and help, I am sure of it 🥰 the same way they pulled me through my initial shock of PC diagnosis of 4+3 with cribriform.