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Thank you, Pinkie. Yes, I am terrified and I also worry about the support I will have afterward. I live alone. I have a son who has a very stressful, travel-heavy job. I really can't rely on him being able to help much. I appreciate your encouragement.
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Hi dna41
Im the same live alone. The first week I had a good friend staying, and my daughter came over to help sometimes. She works full time with 3 kids, so didn't want to rely on her.
Being on your own, you do adjust. I started of small jobs, made a list of importance. Nearly 4 weeks down the line, I can do most things in the house, on one crutch, then I sit with an ice pack and rest once Im done. Its certainly not easy being on your own.
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I understand you live alone. But I hope you at least consider hiring a professional to come in for the first few days. They were the hardest for me. I personally needed someone with me 24 hours a day the first few days. Part of the reason was the pain meds made me a little disoriented. Everyone reacts differently. But you will be busy doing all the things that are required to do after surgery. Good luck!