Hi @linda90,

In 2008 I was officially Stage IVB T2N3M0 on left tonsil caused by HPV and one of my 3 infected lymph nodes was over 7cm and that is not a typo. I had 35 rounds (7 weeks) of Photon radiation which amounted to 70 Gy and 3 rounds of the platinum-based chemo Cisplatin and had no surgery whatsoever. In addition, cancer free in March of 2009.

Unfortunately, I was diagnosed with Tongue cancer on my left side of my mouth on March 1, 2024, and had a left partial glossectomy with a radical forearm free flap surgery on April 3, 2024. It also included a modified radical neck dissection. This one was not caused by HPV and was most likely from too much radiation from the first cancer as it is literally adjacent to my left tonsil.

One thing I am finding out is this big de-escalation Head & Neck cancer treatments coming about especially for people who got it as a result of HPV. I attached some articles on it here. Thus, I would push for the Proton radiation as @jonesja mentioned in the prior comments so you could have a better quality of life afterwards with less of the side effects.

Good luck on your journey.