We like to live by that “one day at a time “as well . Yet , we are both “planners “ so anticipating is in our blood -hard to ignore . The neuropathy is brutal and may force a decision here in the next few days .

Please don't feel guilty, that's an emotion I as a cancer patient struggle with - too much guilt going around. One of us has to go first! Just keep supporting your husband and its wonderful that you are talking to a counselor! Prayers.