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Have you ever felt ghosted by your doctor?

Epilepsy & Seizures | Last Active: Aug 27, 2025 | Replies (15)

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If you have found a good neurologist, you are in good hands. I've thought back over the past few years and wondered what I would have done differently. I honestly feel that one of the key decisions would have been to find a good neurologist, no matter what. As I think back over time I cringe as some of the advice I was given. One neurologist told me to use a CBD cream, and my seizures would go away. They didn't. Another told me to try acupuncture, and it would minimize my seizures. It didn't. Then I had the ones that would just stack one ASM on top of another to the point I was on four ASMs at the end. We all know how that worked. Honestly, it was only when I got into the Mayo family that I was put on a strong foundation to move forward.

My local neurologist is just a bystander in my care at this point. He told me he only treats seizures not people. BTW he is the neurologist who ghosts me. It's funny, I saw him at Costco one day and he avoided even making eye contact with me. I go to Mayo and I see one head neurologist who I hadn't seen in six months, and he stops, remembers me by name, and even asks about my family. That is the Mayo difference.

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That is frustrating. It reminds me of how fortunate our family is living in Phoenix. Mayo is in our backyard, so once we found them, they are our sons only care team.

Tracey