How grateful am I to get a response like this so appreciative. I haven't had the anger set in. For me it's this incredible fear, "I don't know what I don't know" and my mind, just keeps predicting the worse outcome. Which is odd since I"m usually so, so positive. Yes, the problem solving skills are an issue for my husband. Last night's disappearance where he was angrily sitting at the community pool alone and I didn't know where he was. I had to take the car out to find him. Hearing that the changes happen slower, is a positive for me to have faith, and hope, that whatever will be, will be. Keeping things on an even keel is right. And I think you are great about the disagreeing on unimportant things, I think I'm so frustrated, that I just blurt out stuff that really isn't right....My husband is very mild mannered too, I wish I could say the same for me, especially going through this. But reaching out to this group, I knew was the right thing. Thank you for you, today. Your words mean so much to me. Thank you for sharing.