I was 70 years old when I had RARP about 13+ months ago. I definitely had some urine release the first several times I tried to have intercourse (a couple of months after the surgery). Even after it stopped I wasn't confident for a quite a while. It's worth noting during that time I also had some sporadic stress incontinence while exercising as I returned to normal activities. This improved in conjunction with regaining confidence in my overall urinary control over time. At this point at 13+ months after surgery, my urinary confidence is pretty much fully back to normal and I no longer have any issue during intercourse. But it didn't happen overnight. It took me a while to adapt to the new normal and gain confidence. Similarly, my erectile function recovery has been slow but steady. In just the last 2 weeks I've noticed some more progress on my mild ED and now I feel fairly back to normal (or at least in the ball park). Best wishes.