My husband just had surgery on Friday. So far, he is doing great. Our hospital gave him the option of a thoracic epidural, and his pain has been minimal. He has already started on the feeding tube and is tolerating that well. We found that staying hydrated and active was best during chemo, and walking before surgery has helped him. He has been walking the floor every day since surgery, up in the chair and talking. His biggest complaint has been the NG tube, making his throat sore. Otherwise, it hasn't been as bad as we were prepared for. Make plans for a longer hospital stay. For me, the biggest expense has been parking. Our hospital is on a college campus, so it is $18 a day. See if your hospital has any reduced plans before surgery. Make sure to pack snacks and drinks for yourself as well. It is important that you stay healthy to take care of your loved one after surgery.