Hello my name is Bev, I am new to the site and just started the Barbaric & weight loss surgery. I live in western Wisconsin. I have been a widow for 10 years now. I have 5 children and 10 grandchildren. I feel that I need time to take care of myself. So, I'm on my way to a better me one day at a time. Thanks for your time, I'm sure we will talk again.