Increasingly Difficult to Accept Peripheral Neuropathy

Posted by fisbo @fisbo, Oct 10, 2022

I am finding it increasingly difficult to accept peripheral neuropathy it's all very well people coming up with suggestions but carrying them out is quite another. I am no longer who I was and think I am boring and miserable because I am now. Pain takes over and I have become fearful nervous prone to panic attacks which are awful because I start to shake with worrying about the future. I have other worries anyway but if this damned PN would go away it would help.

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I would like to add something else for consideration. I also have PN in my feet and ankles and take the much hated drug Lyrica for the discomfort. I read the posts here and understand that everyone is on their own journey with PN. I was only diagnosed earlier this year but knew what is was about 1 1/2 yrs ago. My thought is that the bulk of research dollars goes to heart and cancer research and until neurology research is well funded nothing will change. I disagree agree with wishing our doctors would just come clean and say "sorry no real help for you" but I think that goes against their training. I do think that it is each of our responsibility to come to grips with the knowledge that there is currently no cure and whatever bandaid we use (exercise,pain meds,massage,etc) is going to have to be enough and get on with our lives. Some days that bitter pill is easier to swallow than other days. Today I am happy to be clear of mind and intelligent enough to hold up my end of a conversation. My girlfriend's husband was just diagnosed with early onset dementia. Please remember to be thankful at least once a day

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Profile picture for magrose45 @magrose45

The only person that I will ever take advice from with regard to my peripheral neuropathy is my doctor. Although I live in England, I research John Hopkins and the Mayo Clinic and if I see or hear anything that makes me think that could be helpful I will then refer it to my doctor so far I have found no miracle cure. I go to the gym five days a week to aqua fitness and as I often say in my heart whilst sitting on my recliner, I can run a marathon. It’s all about keeping your spirit up. Keep going and good luck.

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Good-oh! As a school boy in the US i was down graded for spelling colour and harbour, too much Dickens I guess, but Whilst?-I envy!

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Profile picture for magrose45 @magrose45

The only person that I will ever take advice from with regard to my peripheral neuropathy is my doctor. Although I live in England, I research John Hopkins and the Mayo Clinic and if I see or hear anything that makes me think that could be helpful I will then refer it to my doctor so far I have found no miracle cure. I go to the gym five days a week to aqua fitness and as I often say in my heart whilst sitting on my recliner, I can run a marathon. It’s all about keeping your spirit up. Keep going and good luck.

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Many moons ago a very eminent neurologist whilst trying to discover a problem I was having at that time came up. When he spoke to me what he said was in life there are simply things that we don’t have an answer or a name for not yet with peripheral neuropathy, I feel pretty much the same. I accept it I don’t like it and I’ve checked in England and I often go to the mayo clinic to see what if anything is out there so again zilch. I seldom if ever read medical ads preferring as I said earlier the advice of Doctor and looking into research let me know if you have any better luck than me thank you Margaret

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Profile picture for slowrunner1 @slowrunner1

Good-oh! As a school boy in the US i was down graded for spelling colour and harbour, too much Dickens I guess, but Whilst?-I envy!

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lol having spent a lot of time in the US I actually understood what you just said good for you with regard to the spellings.

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Profile picture for magrose45 @magrose45

lol having spent a lot of time in the US I actually understood what you just said good for you with regard to the spellings.

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This thread has me laughing. It's reminded me of something my Denver writing coach said to me once: "You're a good writer, Ray, but your voice say to me you've spent too much time reading 19th century British literature." 🙂

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Profile picture for John, Volunteer Mentor @johnbishop

@fisbo - We have all been there at one time or another but it is not a good place to be. I don't have any magic words or treatments that are going to cure your neuropathy. I'm no longer who I was either. I have difficulty walking and doing many other things that were fun when I was in my 50s and younger. Growing old with PN is the pits to say the least.

What helped me was to not focus on what I couldn't do anymore or the health issues I struggle with on a daily basis. Instead, I try to focus on things I specifically can do. One of those things for me was to examine my surroundings and find something everyday that I enjoy. Sometimes it's watching one of nature's little critters bouncing around looking for food and sometimes it's just helping a friend or neighbor.

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Absolutely spot-on, my great passion is to go to the gym daily and do Aqua aerobics. It’s the one place where I can move as I want as fast as hard as I want and the cold water just invigorates so yes you’re absolutely right. Don’t focus on what you can’t look at what you can thank you

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Profile picture for cit10jetjockey @cit10jetjockey

Our tax dollars are not at work. Theft by deception is a crime yet these phony drug scammers are everywhere taking our money and we still suffer. Why isn’t the FBI investigating these criminals who sell garbage drugs. Its time these corrupt scammers get shut down.

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The question I would ask is why is it almost always the elderly where the greatest amount of money is made by the scammers. There can only be one answer, we are not listening enough listen to your younger members of your family. Listen to what’s on the news Listen to what your doctor says And equally importantly listen to your gut instinct if it sounds too good to be true then the likelihood is it is too good to be true good luck.

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I'm always looking for more information on different ways to vet all of those different neuropathy cures. I only have the numbness but I know the pain for others can be pretty bad to say the least and it's easy to fall for something that may offer some relief. The Foundation for Peripheral Neuropathy has been doing a lot of rework on their website and I noticed a new article that you can print out easily or save to your computer.

-- Vetting Information on Peripheral Neuropathy:
https://www.foundationforpn.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/VettingPNinfo.pdf

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I empathize and support you. It is difficult to accept the many changes that occur from Neuropathy. I hate having it. I have experienced many significant changes in walking and balance in the last 10 years. HOWEVER, even though I occasionally get into self-pity (poor me!), most of the time I focus on gratitude. What I am grateful for. I can still walk with my walker and I seem to be able to manage my pain- feet at night burning up or feeling so cold they might break off- putting socks on-taking them off, numbness in ankles and legs up to my knees, by practicing an "attitude of gratitude!" "What I practice, I become!" I wish you the best. Practicing acceptance will eventually help you cope better!

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