I am so sorry that you are going through this thru this, I know it’s not uncommon, have heard many situations like this. I use to be a sitter for people that needed care like this. It is very taxing on the family. I would suggest you get support thru your doctors ( hers & your own ) personally if they are different. They should be able to give you guidance as to what to do. Have a doctor visit by your self. Then, seek out some counseling & a support group for Ailhimers ? & go to the group meetings. You are not alone, so many people are in the same situation you are in. I admire you for your dedication to her. Remember there is help, don’t give up in reaching out for help. God bless you & your family. Let us know how things are progressing.