I wish you good luck on your husband’s surgery. My prostatectomy is scheduled for September 2nd. I have pre-op next Monday. I am learning as much as I can on how to prepare for surgery, the week before, the day before, the day of, the morning after, home recovery etc. Based on the learnings, I am doing things I can do now ( e.g. starting kegel exercises, getting supplies, identifying potential home health resources near me etc.) which I hope will lead to a successful outcome.