shellyintong, the RA medications are really so good at preventing damage and reducing inflammation that most experience significant relief. I don't have RA, my sister does. Within a week on methotrexate, she was using her hands without pain. How long will you have to wait to see the rheumatologist? If you haven't heard from the rheumatology office, call them. Try to get in on a cancellation. NSAIDs can be problematic, but the diagnosing physician could prescribe a stronger-than-otc non steroidal anti-inflammatory. Some of the pain is just the inflammation, before it causes damage to the bones.
There is a strong depressive aspect to this autoimmune disease. With treatment you will find relief.
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