Dear Rose
Thank you for replying to me about the problem you are having trying to take to your Hubby. Why I understand is your Hubby has gone into shock & it is his way of trying to handle the problem he has. How do I know this because when I was told I had Pancreatic & Liver Cancer I did much the same & when my wife would try to talk to me I would also shut down because I don't think she really understood what was going on inside my head, The Best think I think you can do is just let him be, do not try and push him just try and be a little bit more understanding he just want to be left in peace. Mean time you yourself must try and find away to fill in your days by going out to friends placers and talking to them about your problems, But just leave Hubby alone Ok
Take Care Rose