You need to find a more supportive doctor. Your doctor does not appear to be aware of how six months could be a major factor in someone’s cancer growth if they are not on ADT. Yes, it grows slowly, but not even considering putting him on ADT is a problem.

Did you ever speak to A radiation oncologist, about radiation instead of surgery or even one of the other treatments that work quite well with somebody that has cancer a your husband‘s level. Here are Non radiation treatments your husband could consider HIFU , Cryoabalation , NanoKnife , TULSA PRO, HoLEP.

It sounds like you found a urologist who really isn’t experienced enough for modern treatments. You would be much better off, going to the Mayo Clinic or finding a Genito urinary oncologist, They are the ones that specialize in prostate cancer.

There is no reason your husband should wait six months for treatment.