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Husband with untreated depression/anxiety
Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Aug 2, 2025 | Replies (45)Comment receiving replies
Thank you for your reply PML > Now I will tell you a little bit about myself & why I asked you that question. To start with let me say that it's fine with me that you are a very big believer in God & sorry to say it, but I'm not a believer at all & why I'm not a believer.
To start with I'm 80 yrs old & had a great life, I'm still married to an Angel after
43 yrs but on 18 July 24 last year I found out I have Liver & Pancreatic Cancer with no cure only Chemo treatment. I've had 6 months of it 5hrs each time which is a killer on it own at my age, now I'm now having Immunotherapy once a month fooled up with a PET scan on the 4 month .
Ok so now you know a little bit about me. While I have been going through hell fighting my Cancer I sit in a room with lots of others who are in the same room as me and see the looks on there facers & I can see the fear in there eyes of Death. As I said, I am 80 yrs old and lots & lots of them are only aged about 18 up Boys and Girls , Also I am only talking about the Hospital that I am being treaded in, Just 1 Hospital only. As for myself I'm ready for ever is a head of me.
Now why I asked you that question about Who made us was it God ???? & your reply was Yes. Lets look at it this way. If God made us don't you think he should go back to the drawing board and start all over again because he was our maker righter ????. Why I ask you this sit back & think about all the illness
we come into this world with lots of time, kids are born with all sorts of Illness even before they take there first steps it would be hart braking to the new Mums & Dads all over the world, I am not Only talking about Cancers here I'm talking about all sorts of things from Heart or Brain or any part of out body, Remember You did say God made us, so how can anyone, not only You but anyone puts so much Faith in someone or something that made you in the first place with so many Illness. & that is Why I think God should go back to the drawing board and start all over again, only lets hope he does a much better job next time on making the human race. ??????????????
I wish you well PML & Please don't think I'm pulling you apart because in what you believe in. I have lots and lots of friends who also are believers in God but they don't try and push ever one else into believing in it just because they do.
Take Care
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Hi Razorsharp,
I'm so sorry that you have cancer! That's awful and so hard to deal with. It's good that you have a wonderful wife and have for 43 years! I'm sure that helps you get through this bad time.
God did make us but Satan causes us to get the illnesses we have, cancers, heart attacks, etc. God heals us and gets rid of the illness; whether it's here on Earth or when we die and go to Heaven and have no more illness. I don't know why God allows Satan to do that but that's the way it is. Praying helps and increases wellness.
I hope you didn't think I was pushing my religion on you. You did ask me if God made the human race. I was merely explaining how I knew this to be true, at least to me. That's why I told you what works for me and then mentioned the Biblical proof. (It's a leftover habit of all the research I did in college.)
You have the right to believe however you want to. This is America and that's one of the things that make it such a great country. I hope everything works out well for you and I will say a prayer for you.
I wish you the best.
PML
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razorsharp..... agree with you 100% without intending to afront anyone. I am 76 years old, have never been a church goer. I am now reading and actually see the validity in Deism. Yes, there is a God, he gave us Reason but not Religion. Most of our Founding Fathers were Deist. Begin by reading The Age of Reason by Thomas Paine and you will begin to understand. I was the sole caretaker of my husband who was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer which had spread to the liver and who know where else. Seeing him suffer and the others that were receiving chemo, if God was in control, He would not have let this happen. I respect everyone's beliefs but for myself Deism works best in trying to understand.