Yes, I do feel the same way. I had a bilateral masectomy last November. My cancer was Paget's disease. A rare form affecting about 4% of women. Mine started with rash in only one breast, then scaling, and itchy. Involved nipple and areola.
Thankfully, mine was DCIS, 2 nodes tested negative. Now cancer free. No chemo no radiation.
Diagnosis began in July, testing MRI with biopsy, punch biopsy mammograms, etc.
That's where I felt life as I knew it changed. All of the above becomes your "social life" appts follow ups. Couldn't make long range plans always had to change them.
I have a wonderful family. Very supportive. But I now feel like somethings lacking. Can't put my finger on it.
Maybe it's the spontaneity of doing things. My health. Always fatigued.
But I am having reconstructive surgery next month, maybe I can get through the healing process again and look forward to not so many doctor's appts.