Hello maggiejinx, I was diagnosed with stage 1 grade 3 ER+Her2- invasive pleomorphic lobular 2 years ago. I had a unilateral mastectomy, chemo, and have been taking Tamoxifen. I will be switching to Letrozole now that I am believed to be menopausal, and I am happy about that because it is better at preventing recurrence. I also had clear margins and a small amount of disease in 1 of 7 nodes that were removed. This is a scary type of breast cancer, but I try not to obsess about that. I took a Signatera test at the 1-year mark, and there was no sign of disease. That has given me a lot of peace of mind. I try to see the glass as half full, so the good that has come from this experience is that I started strength training, practicing daily meditation, eating a plant-based diet, made a career change, and have learned not to take all the good in my life for granted. I don't sweat the small stuff anymore. All of these things have made my life better, and now that my hair has grown back, I feel pretty normal again.