Thank you for volunteering and your comment about Hope is optimism with a plan. I love that!
As to our wedding we are going to keep it as simple and stress free as possible. With chemo my energy is very limited. There is a lovely restaurant right on the Columbia River with a pretty garden. They cater= one stop shopping. We are keeping it very small. Flowers on the table, some sort of mixer, a get acquainted activity for guests maybe and a brief ceremony.