I had both my knees done at Mayo AZ. Much respect, but I hear you. It is a tough surgery and I know that when I had to tell my friends who were facing the same surgery, it was hard for me to be completely honest because I knew they might decide not to have it if they knew how painful the recovery could be. I don't think there is an 'easy' way. Keep pushing, you will get there! I am a huge hiker and I'm an RN working 3 12 hr shits a week. I was able to return to work at three months and begin hiking. It was tough, still painful after 12 hrs on my feet, and I had to learn to be patient. As you have been told, at one year you will be amazed!! I am 16 months on my right and 18 days on my left (I am hating life right now!!), and my right knee is flawless! It feels like I'm 20 years old again and ready to hike. Good luck! You will get there! Wishing you the best.