@itchyrich I'm sorry to hear about your niece. Was this a planned surgery following neoadjuvant chemotherapy (chemo provided before surgery in the hopes of shrinking or stopping the spread of a tumor) or had it spread after she had started immunotherapy and the unfortunate complication? In any case, wishing her all the best for a successful outcome. She has a very compassionate uncle!
She and her sister were proactive to undergo genetic testing. I take it you mean your brother - their father - had no history of melanoma but you had over 30 years ago, and are concerned about your daughter possibly having a predisposition. I'll speculate, too, that there was a genetic tie to their mother's side and you happened to have a melanoma as well - as it can affect approximately 1 in 40 people.
As genetic testing can reveal various types of mutations associated with melanoma, with some variations associated with a much stronger familial incidence, it may be helpful to find out from your nieces what their testing specifically revealed. Once your daughter has that information - along with the dates, family relations and types of melanomas that had been diagnosed and treated - she may be able to better discuss these findings with her dermatologist to arrive at an informed decision, while continuing to undergo her advised skin exams. Other factors to consider is if the testing would be covered by insurance, which would potentially be based upon medical necessity; if not, the costs can run into the thousands.
I'm not sure if you were asking anything in particular but I thought I'd provide some background. Does this help?
I wasn't really asking anything, just providing some real life examples of how melanoma can affect families. Her surgery has been planned from the beginning. The surgery should be done by now and I'm waiting to hear something. My daughter swears she gets annual skin checks but she lives 400 miles away so I don't know for sure. She's 52 now so I have to assume she's telling the truth. 🙂