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I am encouraged that she has 8 yrs between MCI dx and current state. Looking back I suspect my Mom, who died at age 83, had MCI ~ 70. It is difficult to peg my own onset. For me I was still productive as a banking risk exec at 70- but occasionally heard from my team “you already mentioned that”. There are numerous defenses for that scenario, but I suspect that was the beginning of noticeable decline. I always hoped I would have the grace to retire before my skills began to decay. So I retired in 20, did a short term gig for a couple of years and then retired for good.
Before Risk Management I had a 10 year career in Neurophysiology and Hospital Administration. So i have been putting that limited knowledge to work finding a neuro doc, getting all the tests except pet - only because m’care won’t cover it. I may self pay soon - but I have all indicators of increased risk for AD.
Is your wife on any of the available meds? I just was reading about a new sleeping med that seems worth learning more about - Belsomra (suvorexant).
So far the benefit seems marginal on the available Rx. But that is summary level analysis.

I told you I do go on. My full time job is seeking any credible or possible path to delay, defer, or defeat. Keeps me busy between puzzles 🙂

Take care.

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My wife complained of memory loss long before I noticed it. And I think her decline has been slow and subtle, with changes noted more in retrospect than in real time. She has not been tried on any of the limited meds currently available. My professional experience was not gratifying and the side effects are troublesome to many. It has been discussed with her primary care physician, who feels much the same as I do. My wife has a masters degree and taught elememtary education 40 years. She spends her time doing crossword puzzles and sudoku. One other observation that is obvious is that she cannot follow the plot of TV dramas and movies, so she mainly watches new shows and talk shows. We watch Jeopardy together, and she occasionally blurts out a correct answer to a difficult question. This is a strange and highly complex and variable spectrum of "diseases". Your writing skills and background suggest you are highly educated, and I believe highly educated/intelligent people mask their disease for a long time. I wholly support your path to delay, defer and defeat your condition. So far evidence supports that physical activity, social engagement and mental exercises are helpful. I think the real hope is in a medical breakthrough in treatment and/or prevention. We just have to hang on long enough for that to happen. I wish you the best. I'm 81 and trying to stave off my own decline (nothing noticeable at this time mentally but plenty physically).