Sorry you are going through all this. There ARE doctors who will take out the meningioma, even if not growing, because you are symptomatic. My suggestion is to see a neurosurgeon quickly, preferably at an academic institution. I went straight from the MRI to neurosurgeons- have not seen a neurologist at all. I saw 6 neurosurgeons and only one wanted to wait for a follow up scan in 3 mo. The others were prepared to remove it or radiate it quickly, depending on my preference. And mine is much smaller than yours. I am also symptomatic like you, and that makes a big difference. Agree that otherwise docs may not want to operate. Hope that’s helpful perspective.